I don’t think you really understand


When someone’s story and struggle is not yours, you seem to have all the best solutions and advice to calm them down, sometimes even becoming critical.

But when that story and struggle becomes your personal story and struggle, that is when you begin to understand the other person’s frustrations and dilemma.

We are too quick to point out the dos and don’ts in people’s lives, forgetting that when we point one finger to them, we point three fingers to ourselves.

What goes on in our minds about others is a reflection of what goes on in us.

Your positive approval, achieving satisfaction, solidarity, and understanding yourself better helps you understand others better.

Be happy with yourself first, love yourself first, understand yourself, encourage yourself first, think well of yourself first, be positive about yourself first, and all things will work together for your good.

When you experience it first, it’s always easier to give it out to others.

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    you are right on this. Exactly, this is how we handle matters.

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    1. talktomemotivation1 Avatar

      I appreciate your comments, thank you and stay blessed

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